“I had a rough childhood. We were very poor. After I got out of high school and foster care, I moved to Tulsa. I had been a pom pom girl in high school, and I saw this sign outside this club that said ‘dancers needed,’ and I thought to myself, ‘Okay, I’m a dancer,’ so I went inside and these girls had no clothes, but I needed the money, I had no place to stay. So I got the job. I was only 18. Then I got pregnant with my oldest son, and it got me away from a really bad situation, his father was very violent. It was me [and my two children]. And when my daughter was about two and a half, I was told that I was HIV positive. I don’t hide that I have AIDS; it made me the strong woman that I am. I’ve been fighting it for 30 years, and I’m not done fighting. I learned some humility when I became homeless, and I had to leave everything behind and start out brand new.’”